Tips for you guys and gals so you don't become boring in the bedroom! All crediet goes to HomeJournal.

Guys: 10 Tips To Be Better In Bed

"New ways to light your ladies fire."

Shave. Weekend stubble might look sexy but it feels like sandpaper. "Guys, always, always, always use a sharp, multiblade razor for shaving. It'll reduce razor burn for you and whisker burn for her," discloses Michelle of New York.

Kiss her where she's not expecting it. Pay attention to ignored spots of her body. "Touch the edge of her ears, hip bone, collarbone, back, and any scars she might have. Kissing her imperfections will make her feel beautiful," reveals Dana of Stuart, Florida.

Cook for her. Prepare a dinner of finger foods or pasta sans fork. The combination of fingers and lips is unstoppable. "Cooking is all about timing and balance. A man who can cook makes one wonder if he would be competent elsewhere," exposes Cecilia of Queens, New York.

Watch sexy movies together. Women can play into the power of suggestion. "Unfaithful, Pretty Woman, Cruel Intentions, Meet Joe Black, and 9 1/2 Weeks all have hot love scenes with beautiful people," suggests Cristina of Santa Barbara, California.

Take notes. Listen to what she does and doesn't say, and most importantly, watch how her body reacts. The best lover is an attentive one. "Sometimes spelling things out ruins the mood. It can't hurt to make informed guesses," urges Lizzie of Washington, D.C.

Spoil her. Every girl secretly, or not so secretly, wants to be pampered and treated like a princess. "Surprise her with a long massage and a night full of her favorite things. Rent her favorite video and order in her favorite meal," says Jessica of St. Paul, Minnesota.

Go dancing. If you're not the best dancer, sway closely in the privacy of your own home. "I'm terrified of the dance floor but when he puts his hands on my hips, it's not about moving my feet. It's about moving as one," declares Alexa of Nashville, Tennessee.

Apply a little cologne. Remember, a little can go a long way. "The just-out-of-the-shower smell or a small spray on your neck will drive her wild. I am particularly partial to Acqua di Gio and Polo Sport," advises Clare of Rockaway, New York.

Visit a lingerie store. Women want to wear what they know you like. "Take the time to find out what she likes too. It's hard to feel sexy if you're trying to live up to Playboy Bunny standards," recommends Elizabeth of Chicago.

Help her fantasize. Initiate pillow talk with a little storytelling. "If your girl is shy, tell her about some of your tamer fantasies. Then ask sexy questions to get her more comfortable," divulges Yelena of New Milford, New Jersey.

Gals: 10 Tips To Be Better In Bed

"Make your man made with passion with these ideas."

Men love massages. Soothe his sore neck, arms, back, and legs with the sweet touch of your hands. "It's not necessary for you to lick me or give me a seductive massage. I just appreciate being spoiled once in a while," discloses Travis from Portland, Oregon.

Make some noise but don't go overboard. Nothing turns a man on more than knowing, or hearing, that he's turning you on. "If you're too quiet, he won't know if what he's doing is good or bad," advises Brendan of Poughkeepsie, New York.

Leave something behind. When getting out of bed, drop a sexy article of clothing under the covers for him to find when you're gone. "I'd love if a girl hid something naughty in bed as a hint of what's to come," exposes Nikul of Philadelphia.

Don't fight the moonlight. A dark room doesn't always mean he's not interested in looking at you. "Darkness accentuates features of a woman's body you wouldn't normally notice, like her soft skin or the shape of her eyes," says Sean of Plymouth, Massachusetts.

Become an alluring alarm clock. Wake him up with a kiss on the lips or somewhere more daring. "Nobody likes to get out of bed in the morning. A surprise wakeup call can start the day off right," urges Angus of Seattle.

Wear his clothes. Men adore silky nightgowns but sometimes seeing their women in a simple t-shirt or pair of sweatpants is even more tempting. "I love when my girlfriend wears my tank top without a bra," divulges Scott of Malaga, New Jersey.

Mix it up with music. Stop listening to your same old romantic radio station and invest in some timeless mood-enhancers. "A really good CD, like Maxwell, Sade, or Motown, can set the mood," suggests John of Queens, New York.

Soften your skin. Give him a silky reason to keep his hands all over you. "Shave it, wax it, men don't like excessive amounts of hair. And nothing's worse than touching a leg that feels like a dry, scaly alligator. I'm not saying shave your pubes, I'm saying shave your legs." declares Gabe of Washington, D.C.

Go easy on the hair products. Let him get lost in the smell and feel of your soft, natural tresses. "Getting your hand stuck in someone's gelled-up hair is horrible. Leave the hair gel to the men," recommends Matias of Bronx, New York.

Take it slow. If you're always in a hurry, take your sweet time in the bedroom. "Don't rush to the finish line. Guys like foreplay, too. Break out of your normal sex routine and explore his body," reveals Matt of Alta Loma, California.

.K.M.

I have a friend who's dating long distance. Actually, I have a few of them, but one particularly has me thinking about this.

I was in a long-distance relationship about a year ago. It didn't work for me, and I found out tips you can use that'll make sure your relationship will stay stronger.

Note: I cannot take credit for all of these tips, I actually got a lot of them from different people. I'll put their names after each quote if they are not from me.

Tips for long-distance relationships.

1) "Call each other at least every other day. If your familiar with each other and talk to each other a lot about everyday things, it'll seem less like a long-distance relationship." - Sarah, 17 (currently dating a guy at Michigan State.)

2) "E-mail. E-mail each other all the time. Use messenger. Communicate basicly whenever you can."

3) "There is nothing wrong with a little dirty conversation now and then. It keeps the love-life alive and adds some extra spice. Plus, you have something to look forward to." -Anonymous.

4) "Write letters. My girlfriend writes me a letter everyday, and I write her one everyday, too. It's awesome knowing you have a stash in the back of your closet full of her letters, and she has your letters in a box under her bed." - Kean, 16 (dating Lisa, who lives two hours away from him.)

5) "When you do see each other, don't be afraid to let people around you know your a couple. Hold hands, touch lightly, hell, even if you look at each other with a certain 'look' people get the picture."

6) "Don't be too serious, and don't be too lighthearted. Find a perfect mixture." -Joshua, 16 (yeah, Joshua Joshua, whose currently dating no one!)

7) "Having some pictures of your partner helps a lot. Some sexy pictures work, too."

"Tell people you have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Even if you live hours away, and those people will never met him/her, it just makes your relationship seem more real." -Anonymous

9) "If you think about them constantly, then that's a good thing. Don't think of it as a weakness."

AND LAST, BUT NOT LEAST....

10)  "Say 'I love you' constantly, nothing keeps a relationship more alive then just those three simple words."

Every week we'll have a fantasy up from an anonymous source. We hope it'll make you about as frisky as us!

Fantasy Of The Week

He was sitting on a couch when I arrived, just smiling at me, like he knew I would be there. Like it wasn't just a last minute decision based more on heart then mind. I shuffled a bit, my skirt sweeping around my knees, unsure of what to do. But he solved that problem by holding out his hands to me, and I was hopeless to do anything but walk to him.

He grabbed me softly by my hips and lower me onto his lap, so I was straddling him, my skirt riding around my waist, only his jeans and my thin silk panties as barriers. My hands wrapped around his neck, splaying into his hair, tilting his head upwards. He smiled that smiled that could melt my knees, and his fingers stroked my hips softly. There was fire in his dark eyes, a fire that I couldn't help but want to be burnt by. I brought my head down, and when our lips met, something savage burst.

It was almost violent, our lust. We kissed with such animalistic passion, our tongues meeting and swirling, like a dance, almost. Our teeth grazed each others lips, making me mad for him. Everytime I'd try to make the kiss a little more deeper, he'd pull slightly away. He was in control of this whole encounter, and for some reason, it made me mad. It made me want to drive him to a point of no return, it made me want to drive him wild. For me.

Unconsiously, I rocked my hips slightly. I heard him give a moan into my mouth and felt a shiver of satisfaction zip through me. Giving into the urge, I gripped his head and brought his mouth closer, pressing my breasts into his chest until he gave a savage groan and ripped his mouth away, his lips trailing down my neck and unbottoning my shirt. I'm glad I skipped the bra, because his lips found my nipples and sucked, shooting desire through my body.

We couldn't stand it anymore, this teasing. We had to have each other, now. I unbottoned his pants and helped 'him' get free, and I moved my panties to the side so I could lower myself around him. This wasn't our first time, but it felt like it. He held onto my hips and urged me up and down, faster and faster. His lips stayed on my neck the whole time, nipping now and then and I knew I'd have hickeys. I moaned his name inbetween breaths, until finally....

Something snapped within us, and I could feel him empty himself inside of me as he called my name. I finally screamed his name in one breath, and then both of us fell back into reality, our foreheads resting against each other as we tried to calm our pounding hearts.

The end...

wow.

Yes, Detactable Shower Heads.

Don't we all love those? I mean, it's easier to wash your hair, and the bottom of your feet. But....I think I've found a better use.

Now, all women have felt that yearning in the pit of her stomache for her man? You've tried and tried to pleasure yourself, but all that's ever happened is that empty feeling, leaving you more horny then when you started. You could kill yourself, and your man for that matter for driving you into this mindless state of desire.

Well, the cure is detactable shower heads. I swear, they could replace BOB! [battery operated buddy, or a vibrator.] Yes, that's how good it is. I decided to try it on a whim a few days ago after a brief suggestion from my friend. I had it on low at first, I didn't know how sensitive I'd be to her, but after awhile, I was leaning against the wall panting, and turning the power on full blast! I was practically moaning, and it works so much better when you think of 'your man'. I swear, I don't think I've ever came faster, calling out his name and everything. Good think my mom wasn't home, she'd be a little concerned.

So, when you take a shower tonight, let's hope you have a detactable shower head!

kylie marie

...and I think this post is good for guys and girls. So...onwards

A Girl's First Time

Girls, your probably nervous about your first time. I mean, after all the books we've read saying it'll probably hurt, like spliting you in two kinda hurting. You'll be sore afterwards, and then there's the pressure of a orgasim. 97% of Girls' first time, they don't orgasm. SO, basicly, the first time is all hurt and no pleasure. It's basicly the same for the second and thrid time. Then we have to deal with the emotional fact that we just LOST OUT VIRGINITY! Something, as a few of my friends would say, we should cherish and reserve for that special someone.

But, not all girls are like that, so, onwards!

But, girls, I bet you didn't know, that a guy's just as nervous about your first time as you are! So, I decided to make a few pointers for the guys who's partner is a virgin. Just a few, if I listed them all, we'd be here for days.

Easiest Posistion

Although we all love the fantasy doggie-style for the first time, a girl's first time is actually easiest when she's on the bottom, like missionary style. It's the easist on a girl because it doesn't streach her too much, although if you get her to wrap her legs around your waist, guys, you'll go deep.

Be Gentle

Although all guys want to do when they enter is thrust thrust thrust, you have to be gentle. Go slow, and go only when she's ready. After you enter for her first time, it'll hurt her. She'll probably get a little teary-eyed, and might try to pull away. But hold her tight and calm her down slowly. Don't let her move away, or it'll keep hurting her.

Love Her

Afterwards it may be awkward, but hold her and tell her you love her [but only if you do, don't lie!] Well, you shouldn't be making love to her anyways if you didn't love her!

That's all for now!

KM!

I recently had an expierence with a girl named Jasmine. Lemme tell ya, she's a hot piece. firecracker hot! She's latino an' arabic, don't know how that works out, but it does. You'd expect she'd be strict because of her background, but this girl is wild. She's 17, works at the movie theatre I go to a lot (cuz of her) long, straight straight straight black hair, nice, dark comlexion, and eyes so brown they look black.

But her hands is what's got me stumbling over my feet!

She has this way of talking while moving her hands in this incredibly smooth way, that u can just imagine them runnin over your body. she also has a nice set a lips, but they are a little thin. she's funny in a sarcastic way, hangs with a few of my boys, and is really emotional, read her like a book. the thing is, that's kinda a negative thing. i like a girl who doesn't give it all out. but she does. and she has an explosive temper that makes me go """"AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHIIIIIIIIII!!!!!!!!!! LATINO ARAB GIRL GONE CRRRRRRRAAAAAAZZZZZYYYY""""" im serious, she scares me sometimes.

maybe i should say my expierence. she agreed to the date, and i kinda new she would because rumor has it she's easy and a bit of a hoe, but that's okay, because i don't judge before i date. i wasn't really drawn to her personality and I don't think she was drawn to my personality, I think what we really wanted was to just get laid. Yeah, I took her out on a date to a french place a few blocks away from the high school. nice atmosphere, and good food. at least i think it was good food, this girl had me driven to distraction. she played footsies with me and would always have her fingers close to her lips that made me just want to scream in frustration. i had a hard on all freaking night, but i knew by the way she smiled at me when i was paying the tab that it'd only be temporary. i was driving her home, the long way, when i felt her hand inching up my pants, playing along my knee. god, does this girl show no mercy? before i knew it, though, she had my pants unzipped and her hand on my dick, and i was seeing stars so i pulled over on the side of the highway ramp. i lean back and moan and then she has me in her mouth, her teeth doing amazing things, her toung swirling, and this suction motion was awesome. all the while cars are whizzing past us at 10 at night, but all I could hear was the ringing in my ears.

finally, i came. damn, did i come. never had better head in my life. and even though i came in her mouth and a little bit on her chin, she didn't bat an eyelash. damn wench licked it off her face and i was about to come all over again!

needless to say, we ended that date in a hotel. I'm sad to say, though, outside of bed we really don't have anything to talk about, so we were up all night just doing in the bed with 3 different posistion (missionary, her on top, and spoon) against the wall, on the floor, the chairs, the table, on the sink, in the bath. hell, the girl has me so exhausted i think i'll be in bed for months.I

I see her again tonight, when I told her I'd make reservations at a nice resteurant, she said how about I just make plans at a better hotel? Dr. Dehi's Love House here we come! With a spinning bed, hell, who knows what will happen!?

still it sucks that we doing get along outside of bed. i guess we're going to be sex-buddies until we finally find that one who intruiges us. Or until that one has figured out that we love her.

~ Joshua

Yes, Joshua and I have finally managed to get our lazy asses into movement and write some junk, together. I'm posting this segiment, while Joshi-poo still has to post his next.

This chapter is called...........

How To Make Her Horny, Fast! by Kylie Marie

Okay guys, we all know that I have caught your attention.

SO, you want to drive your girlie mad with desire? Make her crave your touch so much she's begging and pleading, moaning your name in you're ears?

Well, you've asked the right person, because I've got the right answers!

Okay, I've asked quiet a few girls, and they've all answered the same thing. A unanimous vote! Where is a girls main 'horny spot'?

Her ears.

I bolded that print so you can take notes.

A women is extremely sensitive around her ears and her neck. Touching there, or biting there affectionatly = instant horniness.

I guarentee that if you place a few kisses there, she'll be wet. Yes, I said it, females, I have betrayed our secret to insant start of an orgasm!

Or maybe your too shy to go right in a nibble along the neckline. Just a simple touch with your hands will do it. Or make an excuse to whisper something in her ear and 'accidentily' get to close so there is small lip contact, but make sure you breath a little against her ear. The hot stream of oxygen also works.

So, remember boys, AIM FOR THE EARS!

Always

KM

yo yo yo! Joshua, as in me, is finally on and learnin' this thing.

KM, as in Kylie Marie, told me to introduce meself, so here I go:

I'm 16. Male. Shaggy brown hair [which da ladies love!] blue-grey eyes, 6"1, I surf, I ride horses, I ride cars, and I ride ladies....sorry sorry, that was prob. more then you needed to here. too bad. grow up, this blog is gonna be field with inappropriat crap.

But, hey, we guarentee one thing and one thing only: Your goin' to learn some new stuff!

So sit back n' enjoy why the love experts [and the lust experts] share their tales!!!!!

J0shua

Hello, hello. Welcome to Sultry Secrets a little blog website that my friend, Joshua, and I, Kylie Marie, started. We're both 16 although he's a few years older, and although we used to have a romantic relationship, we realized we just weren't right for each other. However, that doesn't stop us from remaining close friends, and we've found out that being friends is honestly more fun. Although our boyfriends and girlfriends don't get that! We haven't atteneded the same school since 7th grade, since we both live in different cities, but about every weekend we spend together, and we're constantly calling each other.

We made Sultry Secrets to keep in contact and to share our rather steamy secrets with everyone else. Who doesn't love to indulge once in awhile?

Maybe I should tell a little about myself, my name is Kylie Marie Midnight, I'm a Junior, probably the only Junior in the world without their Drivers License. I live with my mom in a two-bedroom apartment, I have a fetish for jewellry and erotic stories. I'm a compulsive dater, I have a religion although I don't follow it much. I have wavy auburn hair and am about 5"7. I'm not into immature guys, although I always seem to go out with the bad boys. I have the wierdest range of friends, the one's I talk to the most being a crazy Italian named Mario, the twins who live nextdoor who seem to think it funny throwing rocks at my window at 4:00 AM, my three rocker buddies who hope to start a band, my one religious friend who happens to be a Mormon who never ceases to amuse or amaze me, my hyper little cheerleader friend who gets annoying sometimes, and, of course, Joshua.